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Soft Daddy & Olivia

Ney York City, NY

Soft Daddy (Liv, he/they) is a queer, transmasculine kinkster, rope bondage artist, and educator based in New York City. His practice centers fat and marginalized bodies and people, rooted in the belief that all bodies belong in rope, and works to make physically challenging, aesthetically driven rope both accessible and collaborative for anyone who wants to experience it. He has performed and taught across the U.S. and internationally, including Hit Me Up NYC, Folsom Street Fair Bondage Stage, Twisted Windows SF, and Tension MTL. His approach to teaching mirrors his approach to rope: pluralistic, hands-on, and communication-based creation of intentional containers for exploration. As a true switch, Soft Daddy brings the perspectives of both top and bottom to his teaching, connecting the relational skills of communication and trust with the technical skills of rope.


Olivia (she/her) is a rope bottom and educator based in New York City. She has been a practicing rope bottom for more than three years, bringing a bottom-centered perspective shaped by her love of being in rope, pushing her limits, and doing hard things while looking hot. Her approach to presenting is grounded in lived experience in processing pain, navigating risk, and developing the communication skills needed to make intentional choices as a bottom. Olivia brings curiosity, humor, and a willingness to get uncomfortable into her practice, using her own experiences in rope to help others better understand the physical and mental realities of being a bottom. Olivia has taught "Pervy Partials" at Kinbaku Miami and AirFlow at Coil & Cord in Brooklyn, NY with her partner Nina.

The Artistry of Tying Bigger Bodies

Hands On

Intermediate

Top & Bottom Focused

Time & Date

TBD

Description

Designed for intermediate to advanced tying pairs, we’ll explore how to safely lift & handle bigger bodies, adapt harness design, structure, and tension to support more weight while maintaining comfort and aesthetics, and managing uplines and weight distribution to create dynamic experiences and shapes, all while centering play, emotion, and beauty.

This class focuses on the technique and artistry of tying, lifting, and suspending bigger bodies. The term “bigger bodies" can mean many things, in this instance “bigger bodies” means: fat, tall, beefy/meaty, bottoms; but it could also mean: you are a smaller rigger and everyone you tie is a “bigger body” to you! This demonstration will center around the construction and use of the Void TK Chest Harness, but partners are welcome to use any suspendable chest harness that works best for them.

Prerequisites

Riggers must be able to tie suspendable upper and lower body harnesses, and attach/manage multiple suspension uplines with upper and lower lockoffs. This class is designed around the Void TK chest harness, but any chest harness loadable from back/side/front is acceptable.

Bottoms should be able to manage their bodies in suspension, and communicate rigger feedback in real-time.

Elbows-Crossed Harness & Torques-n-Torsions

Hands On

Advanced

Top & Bottom Focused

Time & Date

TBD

Description

This class is a combination deep-dive into torques with rope and the torsions that come as a result of them. After learning to tie Soft Daddy’s Elbows-Crossed Harness, this class focuses on the rope/harness placement, load point, and height leverage options, to create dynamic and
intense yet sustainable torsions.

This class focuses on the functional and aesthetic options available when tying torsion-centered rope in semi/full suspensions. We will cover the intrinsic components of torsion rope play from proprioception, breathwork and spine protection, to breath play. We’ll also dig into the emotional capacity torsion rope play can hold for the bottom.

Prerequisites

Riggers must be able to tie suspendable upper and lower body harnesses, and attach/manage multiple suspension uplines with upper and lower lockoffs. This class is designed around the Elbows-Crossed chest harness, but any chest harness loadable from back/side/front is
acceptable. Bottoms should be able to manage their bodies in suspension, and communicate rigger feedback in real-time.

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